Sex is so much more than what goes on in the bedroom. Sex has three aspects:

  • Biology

    The sex we’re assigned at birth based on sex characteristics, including intersex and people born with characteristics that don’t fit binary definitions of male or female.

  • Identity

    Our sexual orientation - lesbian, gay, bi- and pansexual, asexual, celibate, engaged in BDSM, kink and fetish, etc.

  • Practice

    What we enjoy, how we play, who we play with, what works and doesn’t work for us. This can often be in conflict with the early messages we receive about sex and sexuality.

Whether you’re single or in a relationship; have one partner or many; whatever your gender or sexual identity or attraction, I can help you overcome most challenges.


Using a bespoke blend of psychotherapy, psychosexual education and supported behavioural change, I can support you with:

  • Erectile disorders
  • Inability to orgasm (anorgasmia)
  • Inability to have penetrative sex (vaginismus)
  • Intimacy
  • Lack of desire or arousal
  • Painful sex (dyspareunia)
  • Out of control sexual behaviour, including porn and sex addiction, both for those affected by it and their partners
  • Rapid or delayed ejaculation
  • Retarded (inhibited) ejaculation

I also work with people exploring or wanting to commit to gender, sexual or relationship diversity (GSRD), for example:

  • Gender or sexual identity, practice and attraction
  • Gender transition
  • BDSM and kink
  • Ethical non-monogamy and polyamory